Just had a thought, it is about Marriage. I was thinking about name the switch. Were as some women feel it is an ownership kind of thing, I beg to differ. Looking at it from a male point of view, I can see the other side of it. When a man asks a girl out it is the most nerve racking thing to do. Because once we hit a certain age, our minds are constantly thinking about it... (It’s not just about sex) Just before you do it, you spend a lot of time thinking about the right way to go about it. (Because if you do it right, your reward for doing a good job, could be sex...Get it?) If you are good you will get thoughts from different areas. Now with as much information as possible a man has to ask the question and make the PLAN. The women only has the role of acceptance, does this person, by looking at his plan (Which means different things to different women) deserve a first date...or a second...then is he good enough to be with me.
Now during a date the women is not in the driver’s seat, but she will let the man know if he is driving too fast, or if he needs to put on his blinker. The woman is treated at a princess, she gets her meal paid for, doors opened for her, she gets to talk about herself.(Most men knowing full well, that you need to let the conversation drift more to her side). Even when the dates turn into a year around thing, the man still needs to be there for her. At the end of the dating phases, and at the start of the next phase, the man will enter into it in a submissive position. When a man comes to the conclusion that this is the women he wants to be with. He will get down on one knee, or on both knees. Most commonly on one knee, this in turn makes the ring look like it is on a pedestal. The women either sitting or standing will only have to decide if the plans and effort has been there. Asking herself, “Do I love this person enough to spend the rest of my life with him?”
While she is standing she is in a dominate position. Anytime you are in a position where you are looking down at someone, you are in the dominate role. Now with the name switch, a woman thinks to herself, does this man deserve my name to be in front of it? Has he proven himself worthy to be with me? Then out of RESPECT a woman will decide if this Provider, Protector, and Planner is worth it, and she will accept his family’s name (VERY IMPORTANT TO US). Another way of thinking about it, is to think that the woman has asked for everything from you, and now she gets your name as well. In conclusion women get it all, and if you find a good guy that is there for you, you should look at it as a sign of respect to have his name. That he made the effort, and has had to work really hard to get his name up there.
Think about it as the hall of fame,
“Look at that! I finally got my name up there..!!
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